Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
yes it has been another freaking year. I had the oportunity to move into an appartment. Told my husband I was moving out and even had half of my things packed. He called me home from work two weeks before my move got on his hands and knees and begged me to stay. So I did. One year later I regret my decision. This past weekend, Easter Weekend, I found him at the house of my "arch enemy". The people who destroyed my hole being 3 years ago. He swore he had nothing to do with them anymore and look where I found him. Why did I not listen to my gut feeling, why did I freakin' give into him again. Now I have no money saved up, the perfect appartment is gone and I have no where to go. I hate myself for being so stupid.
That was last June after 11 years of a marriage that reflectively started to turn almost moments after the ring was placed on my finger.
While I look back and often ask myself why I did not boot him out earlier and when I look at the progress I have made since June 10 when I did just that, I am just trusting that there was a reason.
We always have a choice and multiple choices. You will find yours.
i can completely relate to this. i used to ride in the truck with my now exhusband. we were engaged. i rode in the truck with him almost 8 months. one day he dumped me at a truck stop in roanoke because i was crying and according to him "being overly emotional". he kept telling me that he couldnt change his mind back- that he was going to leave me there. and he did. right at the cash register with all my stuff. on hangers. everything. and walked out. i have no idea how the card went thru to get a hotel because there was no money in the account. several months later, he calls me telling me he is going to be in town on his truck route and wants to see me. begs me to come back. tells me he realized how much he loved me etc etc etc. you get the picture. and i went back. because i believed him. because i wanted it to be true.
you wanted it to be true too. you are human. go easy on yourself. you arent alone.