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Day six...still counting

Strong4me2017
Strong4me2017

Last night was really hard I melted down again. My mom came over and sat with me it helped a lot. And I slept without thinking about him. In scared to go home (I work 48 hours at a assisted living house) and be off and deal with everything. At least here i can just focus on work. That is go ing to be the true test of my strength being home around his memory. I'm glad I found this group so I can let go and you all understand this pain. 

Atpeacemary
Atpeacemary
Hugs my friend. I know it is hard but please be gentle with yourself. I had to live with that "ex" for one year after the separation was filed. He did not want to move out. He was ordered to pay all the bills. that is why he stayed. You have to realize that he will always be a part of your history. It will take time and hard work but you can do it. No contact is the best thing you can do. When you see him, just smile turn around and walk away. You do not owe him anything. You are young, now is the time to focus on yourself. Upgrade your skills, travel a bit. Grab life by the horn and swing it. Line up a lawyer, therapist and a life coach(therapist),you will need them to navigate down the road through hell. Hugs again
Alovetolast
Alovetolast
It's been 15 days since my divorce date. I felt like nothing has changed. My emotions range from okay to back to my black hole.of pain. I have many days of melt down as well. It's hard when I'm in the office trying my best to compose myself.

I'm sorry you're going this painful process as well. I'm a very strong person. One of those who will fight whatever it takes; but with this painful process, I don't even have a strength to face the reality that I already lost my wife. Unfortunately, this is part of grieving process and we can't rush it.

I'm hoping for the best for us. I wish that we can get through this process. Hugs!
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