Wow Cherie - kudos to you - you're brave asking that on here. I hope they are not too blunt with their responses.

Don't know about men, they sure as heck have me perplexed but I am so impressed right now. What a tremendous spirit you have!!!

Wow is right! Amazing all that you have been through over the past few years your outlooks seems very positive.

I'm more attracted to the the whole person as a posed to the individual parts.

Good Luck

I know that this is a genuine concern for you. I have concerns like this also except in regards to my stretch marks.

Honestly, if a man looks at your nipples then decides he doesn't want you anymore he's not a man you should be with. You don't need someone as superficial as that.

You want someone who's going to look at your struggles and be glad that you're still alive, wanting to have fun with your new lovely boobies.

Sorry to get personal and feel free not to answer, but aren't they nubs of flesh with tattooing around them? The ones I've seen look pretty natural and I doubt a guy would notice unless you mention it.

And like ThenAgain said, if a guy decides he doesn't want to date you because of your nipples, he's no guy you want to date anyway.

Best of luck out there!

Ok, what do you mean by fake nipples?

is that possible?

I worked with this lady, she had a boob job.. they were nice except for one thing... they went out to the side, so it was natural but hey they were tits right...

Did that help? lol

Wow! Thank you so much for answering! I'm also really touched by the support.

Analavinia, They are flesh, raised in the center, with tatoo coloring around them. Actually, the boobs themselves are all the same skin but the nipples are made from skin from my back. I guess it looks fairly natural. I don't know if they feel the same. Not sure anymore, just a bit reluctantly to spring them on anyone:(

Goodlord1?

I ment to say not natural...

I second anna, i don't think what your boobs/nipples look like should matter..

A true testament to your amazing spirit and as a survivor!! I wouldnt worry one bit about it..you are amazing!! Im learning that it seems as if men are attracted to a womans attitude about herself as a whole...not just parts of her.

There is a whole new world out there....

Kudos to you Cherie1. Good for you.
While I see the most important element of this post as your being comfy with what you have, I see no reason to be concerned about the details regarding the reconstruction. Like multiple other replies, if a man gets to that point in a relationship with you, and then complains about the reasonable facsimiles, then his interest is not in your best interest, JMO. If you find a man that may get to that point and are concerned, just tell him the facts, If he jests or appears apprehensive after disclosure, then move on, as that one truly is caught up in fantasy rather than the cold cruel realities life can dole out.

Thanks again to everyone! Reality sure seems to be the word doesn't it! We've all been hit with plenty of that!! I guess it's one of those things that remains to be 'seen'. Hopefully I will find someone worthy enough to love all of me.

((Cherie))

Cherie, go buy yourself some pretty new bras, hike up your girls in style, and know that you are an awesome person. A true survivor. A man would be privileged to bed you, fake nipples aside.

That is all.

Guys seem to like the implant fake ones ok enough.....

I can't for the life of me imagine any guy having issues with yours considering the reason you have them.

I think the right guy would want you for you, and not care about it.

This would not bother me at all.