Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I met someone a year ago who just got divorced and bc I was afraid he was on the rebound, I wanted to take things slow. He also lives out of state so the relationship just never could take off. he makes comments on my facebook wall that lets me and all my friends know how much he is into me. we talk about real things in life what we want what we need, family, kids etc. and it usually ends up with how much he likes me and misses me. now he has posted some pictures on his wall with a "GF" yet still makes comments how lonely he is bc he has no one... is this a mind game? Is he tired of waiting and this is his way of trying to bait me? It is kind of working, I have to admit. But I think it is also starting to hurt. Thoughts?
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Couple questions:
Do you two have the economic means to visit each other fairly regularly?
Can/are either of you willing to relocate?
Do you have similar goals?
Do you have similar worldviews (ie faith, politics, etc)?
Any other things you can recognize re: compatibility via long distance might be helpful.