My story is on here in many bits and pieces, but I just got divorced this August. It was rough. It had taken over a year for us to get to court... I was extremely angry and resentful... just so many things were wrong. I was the one who wanted the divorce, filed, etc. so I'm confused as to why I'm feeling the way I am right now...

Basically, I thought I would try dating again. I signed up for an online dating site figuring I'd just take things slow and see if I met anyone. Well, I've been talking to a few different guys but only went out with one of them. Now, I know it might sound ridiculous but we've only gone out three times, but I can tell he's someone I want to get to know better. Leading up to our first date, we talked a lot on the phone and through text throughout the day. First date went great, second date did as well. We didn't talk as much in between the second and third dates due to his work schedule so I figured everything was still fine.

Well, we had our third date this past weekend. I thought things went great...but then I didn't really hear much from him this week... I asked him if he had any fun weekend plans and then asked him out on my own when he said he didn't! Okay so maybe a little forward who knows... I suggested we go to a winery for a fall festival type of thing on Sunday, since he likes sweet tasting wines and this winery is known for that. He is not originally from the area so is unaware of where the winery is. He asked if it was near a certain other major city in our state. I replied back that it was about 20 minutes north of there.... his response was "I might need to go to (major city) on the weekend...that might work." ????

Now I completely get it... three dates is exactly nothing and I'm sure he's probably seeing other people and feeling things out. But I feel so rejected and I know I shouldn't.... is this normal??!?!?