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Contemplating Break Up

jaxcarlisle
jaxcarlisle
Lately I've been contemplating seperating from my wife. We avoid conversation and keep it to small talk only. It's hard to actually bring up the topic of the "D" word because we have three kids and it's the holidays. I don't know what to do but I feel something must be done. Sometimes I think its just a phase we're going through but my heart says otherwise. What should I do?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Most people would say that it's time for therapy. If she won't go, then you go alone. There is something between both of you that needs to come out in the open and until it does, you need to work on this.
deleted_user
deleted_user
could not agree more or say it better.
jaxcarlisle
jaxcarlisle
Thank you. Something that is deeply hurting me needs to be addressed. I feel like walking away from the drama in hope i will find peace.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Walking away from something won't fix it.
Please try therapy/counselling. If there's too much broken and it really can't be mended, then you can walk away knowing that you tried your hardest.