Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Strong4me2017 04/27/2017

I feel like I'm stuck in denial with everything. I don't feel sad. I don't really feel anything l. I am slowly accepting being alone and I have to keep reminding myself that I am alone and he isn't coming home. Which then I feel like I need someone to fill the void in my life. I joined a dating site that was really dumb. A couple men started taking to me and I talked to them for a while. It was nice having someone to talk to and now I feel like I'm not ready for that I would rather be alone. I looked up all the stages of gried for a breakup or divorce and I don't even know where I'm at with that am o angry? No not really. Am I depressed? Some days I try to accept being alone. I don't know I'm just confused

ripped_my_heartout 04/27/2017

You need to heal. You need to fill that void yourself. Allow yourself to become whole again. Filling that void with another relationship right away will almost certainly end in disaster. You will be blind to the red flags. Heal yourself first. Be comfortable for who you are. Do not settle for someone for the sake of settling.

I found joining a divorce group helped me heal greatly. We were all there for the same reason. Gave me the helpful tools to help repair and rebuild myself. I recommend anything you can do to help yourself. Exercise, eat right, try to get proper sleep, therapy if possible and join a divorce group. I know all about the confusion. Time will help you sort out the mess and you will heal.
Stay strong and positive.
-HUGS-

guachita 04/27/2017

I feel like walking on eggshells everyday, I don't know If I will end up in divorce or not, some days I do, some days I don't. During the turmoil, when all this started he left the house and for almost a week he went to his shop. I did not know what to feel, I still don't know what to feel, I wish things were easier and faster. Something that helps me is to find purpose of my crisis, so far I have met 2 wonderful people due to this journey and I'm grateful for that. What else is in? I see a change in career very soon. Focus on you first and you will start seeing some light.... things will work out for you. Look back and you will see they always have.

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