Hello, I'm new to this site. I just found sexting messages on my husband's phone. I only got to read a couple of lines from the women that were very graphic. Before he grabbed the phone from my hand and ran out of the house because he had to get our son to soccer. I called and told him to turn his ass around because our marriage was more important. I also told him that if he erased  those messages before he got back that it was over. He came home after my son's game and no phone because he "threw said phone out the window" because he was so upset. After I exploded on him he told me they we nothing more than text. That he never met the women. That she contacted him on Facebook and he stupidly gave her his number. That it had only been going on for 2 weeks. (Now let me back up to me reading the text the first couple lines were the graphic: come f@#k me, I want ...Blah,blah,blah but as I scrolled my head was spinning and I swear I saw something about her being parked somewhere. Like to met her somewhere. But like I said at this point my head was in a spin my body weak as my world was crashing so I can't recall 100% what it really said.) So with no phone for me to look at because he "threw" it out I only have his word. He says it was all just texting/sexting in fantasy. He is now staying at his sister so I can calm and figure out what comes next. We have 3 kids a beautiful family. I just don't know how to more forward I feel like by him not showing me the text he's hiding something but my heart wants to believe him. Any advice on how to proceed or article's to read anything anyone thinks can help, please I'm lost and heartbroken.