Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Skype; senselesssuffering
kik; jessebabyyy
I really need someone to just speak to me and I need a friend right now.
My Story:
At my grandmas waiting for my boyfriend to get off work. He gets off work and asks me to go outside. He says he wants to breakup but he cant tell me why. It's too "complicated." So I try to act like an adult and pretend im perfectly fine and not start crying but my heart was breaking. He said he knew something was wrong because I wasn't hyper like I always am. He was holding me and kissing my forehead. Then he said he had to go and tried to kiss my lips but I turned my head and he got my cheek. I called my friend crying to come pick me up because I didn't want to get harrassed by my family. A few minutes later he texts me saying what an ass he is and says hes crying and going to miss me so much. Then tells me he broke up with me because he needs to figure things out. I'm just really confused and hurt. And my friend i've had since 3rd grade wouldn't help since she was with her boyfriend. I've always dropped what I was doing for her guy problems no matter what. I'm just really lonely.
kik; jessebabyyy
I really need someone to just speak to me and I need a friend right now.
My Story:
At my grandmas waiting for my boyfriend to get off work. He gets off work and asks me to go outside. He says he wants to breakup but he cant tell me why. It's too "complicated." So I try to act like an adult and pretend im perfectly fine and not start crying but my heart was breaking. He said he knew something was wrong because I wasn't hyper like I always am. He was holding me and kissing my forehead. Then he said he had to go and tried to kiss my lips but I turned my head and he got my cheek. I called my friend crying to come pick me up because I didn't want to get harrassed by my family. A few minutes later he texts me saying what an ass he is and says hes crying and going to miss me so much. Then tells me he broke up with me because he needs to figure things out. I'm just really confused and hurt. And my friend i've had since 3rd grade wouldn't help since she was with her boyfriend. I've always dropped what I was doing for her guy problems no matter what. I'm just really lonely.
I'm so sorry you are hurting. I understand the loneliness. Is there someone in your family who you can talk to and can comfort you? Are you comfortable speaking to God? He is always available. I also journal to release my feelings and work through them.
I apologize for the short response, but my brain is not working properly today, so I'm sending you lots of hugs and comfort.
Sometimes people (especially boys!) do things we don't understand. I'm not sure what he means by he needs to "work things out" but it's something guys seem to like saying. It's very ambiguous. Is there another girl he likes? Is he gay? Does he "want to be free"?... Who knows what the heck he's "figuring out."
Breakups always hurt. Even though it really sucks, maybe just be glad he broke up with you BEFORE involving you in his personal drama.