Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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christi33c 10/08/2016

i just can't seem to get the pain to stop. I miss him so much. All I want to do is call him. Tell him to come back, but I know that is just a cycle that just keeps hurting me. He "moved out" on October 1st. He took most of his clothes and some other stuff, but left behind a lot of personal belongings, his TV, dresser, some clothes, toothbrush, bathroom stuff, pillow, ect. I know I'm going to get the response that I need to make him come get the stuff or get rid of it, but I can't seem to make myself do that. I just don't want to let him go. I guess I am wondering why he left that stuff behind.

Jmit129 10/08/2016

Heartbreaks ate the worst thing in the world. I'm sorry this is happening to you, I'm2 weeks out of a 2 year relationship myself and i struggle waking up each morning. I'm here to talk whenever you need. I hope you get some sense of relief because i knkw the torture. Nothing seems to matter anymore, no joy in anything.

imiru 10/08/2016

Was it a bad break up? It sounds like he was either in a hurry to leave or he wants reasons to come back and possibly mess with your head and hurt you. I'm not saying that's the truth but just be wary and keep all of his stuff packed up and ready to go for him, that way he can just pick it up and leave without staying too long.

christi33c 10/08/2016

It is such a struggle to find any joy. It is just going through the motions of the day and literally counting down the hours until the day is over. I feel so selfish for feeling so sad. I have 3 children to take care and though I am meeting their basic needs, they are not seeing their mama truly happy anymore and I know it has to be making an impact on them too. I try not to let them see me cry or see the pain I am in. I feel so lost and alone. I just want to get through this and not feel the pain anymore.

Jmit129 10/08/2016

Yeah I am the same, I just look forward to sleepimg at night but dread waking up. You are so strong to still be a good mother throughout all this. I pray all the time and have always believed God has a special person for everyone but losing someone you love in the process is never reassuring. I never saw the point in losing someone we love just because of other circumstances.

christi33c 10/08/2016

The breakup was not bad. It just happened one day. He said he wasn't happy. He exiled for shared custody of our son and said he was moving. No explanation. The morning he left he still hugged and kissed me and said I love you. We didn't have a huge blow out or anything. There is no closure. I question if he just needs space or what this is all about.

MendingAgain 10/09/2016

I'm sorry for your pain. hugs.

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