Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My BF and I split up today. We were best friends and lived together and had many plans for the future. I loved him so much. Unfortunately he had this terrible habit of threatening to leave or actually moving his stuff out whenever we got into a fight. Today he threatened again and I called his bluff and he actually left and said there is no going back. I have to ask myself why I allowed him to play that 'leaving' game but still kept him around and loved him. I should have let him go the first time he did it and in the back of my mind I thought that this would be exactly how we would end up breaking up. And here we are. I'm doing what I can to not think about him or things we had planned. I will not fall into depression over this. It's hard though. I miss him already.
Stay strong!!
I really just had to think to myself that I deserved better and that I could do better than that person.
I hope that you start feeling better. Add or message me if you ever need a friend!
You will go through a grieving period which is totally normal. Look up the stages of grief so you will be familiar with them. You will pass through them all, some more than once. Take care of yourself. You won't always feel this way. (((HUGS)))