Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Lately I've been able to enjoy something for a few minutes without thinking of her or remembering that we are no longer together. It's not very long indeed but it gives me hope. Recently I've been watching more of Netflix than usual and YouTube as well. It helps a little to distract myself which is good. I'm at a weird stage at the moment. I know the relationship is now a part of my past and I accept that my ex wasnt a perfect fit but I'm also obviously not ready for someone new and that puts me in the lonely stage. I still miss her but she's never coming back so I'm trying more and more to think of her less. I know my biggest challenge now is to really grasp the idea of self love and self worth which is something I've always been in desperate need of. I guess 50 is as good an age to start lol!
It's great you are working on you. I journal. I do affirmations. I've read abandonment to healing book and others.
Those minutes will stretch into hours than days. I promise it will.
Take time for you. Heal than you'll meet someone who is the right fit.
As hard as it may sometimes still feel with you two no longer being together-- I think Masterno is right-- that time will soon grow and you will find yourself more comfortable not just when you are alone but as you get out around others.
PS. I can't tell you how nice it would be to just cuddle on the couch, yack and watch some tv. You will have that soon I am sure. :) Hugs, Kim