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Breaking free from the chains

Rman
Rman
If you just CONSIDER it, then the hardest part of the process has been done. If I consider making any change, then breaking free from the chains is a serious possibility...you gotta want to make a change, before you can even try to make a change...
patti22
patti22
Depends.

For me...starting IS definitely the hardest.

But for some others, it's the easiest...perhaps a knee jerk reaction, and for them putting it all into motion is the hardest.

Doesn't much matter, we all must wake up, and face the challanges of the day....and some days are easier than others.
Rman
Rman
Good point Patti...some may say that they are going to change, but never go through with it. For me, though, I don't ever change unless I want to...
patti22
patti22
Rman, I keep thinking about nursing school. The hardest part for me was going back and starting school again. But only 20% of the people that Try, get admitted to clinical. And now that I am admitted to it....the Real hard work starts. I get up and study Every Single Day....whether I'm in class or not.

But I'll still say, starting was the hardest part for me. And I have to say, that's true with everything in my life.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I want the change & am ready for it. i hope it's ready for me.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yea the hardest part for me is following through. Although both are extremely hard and take alot of will power and courage
deleted_user
deleted_user
You are so right Rman, It is a mind set....