Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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Hi Everyone !
Me and my Ex have been off and on since Sept 2014.
I cheated ( texted another man nothing more never got no where ) in 2010 and he always told me that he was going to do the same on day .
Well 4 years later he did , he cheated moved out and bought the OW gifts and went on dates don't think sex was involved he deny s it . We have been together for 15 years and this is the first break up we have had.We had joint accounts and I left him half the money after our split , he disagrees with the amount and has returned back every off often asking for money back in return . He tells me that if I give him the money he will move back in and everything will be back like before ( I know it's not true) but I accept him coming back into by life because am hurting and love him to many years .
I don't know what to do I 've had NO contact with him since a week ago and I miss him like HELL .
am left wondering if he EVER loved me , why he is not contacting me
if he is with another women
I cant sleep ...
Am SO lost and don't know how to approach is situation.
Any advice would help , thank you for your time in reading my post
Posted on 04/16/15, 06:23 pm
Me and my Ex have been off and on since Sept 2014.
I cheated ( texted another man nothing more never got no where ) in 2010 and he always told me that he was going to do the same on day .
Well 4 years later he did , he cheated moved out and bought the OW gifts and went on dates don't think sex was involved he deny s it . We have been together for 15 years and this is the first break up we have had.We had joint accounts and I left him half the money after our split , he disagrees with the amount and has returned back every off often asking for money back in return . He tells me that if I give him the money he will move back in and everything will be back like before ( I know it's not true) but I accept him coming back into by life because am hurting and love him to many years .
I don't know what to do I 've had NO contact with him since a week ago and I miss him like HELL .
am left wondering if he EVER loved me , why he is not contacting me
if he is with another women
I cant sleep ...
Am SO lost and don't know how to approach is situation.
Any advice would help , thank you for your time in reading my post
Posted on 04/16/15, 06:23 pm
As far as advice. I can say that keep talking about it seems to help. Listen to what others say on this site. They've helped me. Many here have already been through this and can give good advice to you and I who are just going through it now.
People will give you lots of cliches, and at times it may seem too cliche, but those things like "time heals...." and things will get better. It's true.
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