I mentioned in a thread earlier that I am a Hospice Aide, but that was a career change for me. I love it, it is much more my true nature, but for most of my life I worked in construction, oilfield and warehouse. I have something going on concerning men. I've been in two relationships, and they ended poorly, and that could possibly make a girl bitter, but it wasn't the only thing, I have to say it was the working with the men. When you first come on a crew they hit on you, but once they would figure out that I was already spoken for and I don't mess around, then they relax, there not trying to put on a show, they kinda take you into their fold. I was just one of the guys........OMG the things they say and do, there attitudes towards there wives and girlfriends, and what fidelity is. Can't tell you how many "remarkable men" have "open relationships, cause their wives are just so bitchen, really........, I'll be sure to mention that to her when I see her next. It's like you can't un know it. I think I am healing, and grieving from my last relationship, but I'm not sure I'll ever be okay with men again cause I kinda think there hounds.