I get it, lol!

then please share!

We should post videos.

Or...act like your cell phone is buzzing and several times through the visit, take it out of your pocket, turn it away from him and say..It's just my sister." Oh, my sister again. Ah...I'll call my sister back later. With stbx, it was always his best frirend, "Tim", calling him. Sure. Right. I got to where I didn't react and that is when he started showing me who called, but not every time, I noticed. I wasn't reacting to his cat and mouse game. He dropped in out of the blue on Monday. He is standing in the living room and got the usual call. Same shit, and he tries to show me who called! Like I even care anymore....he has moved out to live with ow and her PARENTS (just love to say that...he's 45 living at her parents!) over three months ago and still thinks he has to lie/make excuses or whatever. Kills him when I don't react. :)

If you want to "give him a taste of his own medicine" you are letting him live rent free in your head.

ha ha ha...I'm kind of at the don't give a __ phase right now. He's been bugging me about us being friends so I'm going to let him take me out to dinner next weekend when he comes for his visitation and I'm going to order so much damn food and just eat and eat and eat...and say throughout the meal so he want get mad....Ghee I really am glad we decided to be friends (as I shove my mouth with a piece of juicy steak and potatoes and shrimp and bread and baked chicken and pasta and salad) you were right all alone. I asked so stupid....no no no it wasn't your fault. Waiter can I get the chocolate cake and some ice cream. Hey, these things happen, there is no reason why we can't be civil to each other. Waiter I'll take a slice of apple pie too. I'm so happy for you for being man enough to say you wanted out. Oh waiter, can I get a order of ribs and fries. Oh boy am I starving. Don't worry I want waste your money what I don't eat I can always wrap it up and take it home. How is what's her name? Waiter another long island ice tea. I'm glad you met her she seems so nice. (big smile) How much is the bill, ghee did I eat that much? I wish I could help you out with this bill but I don't have any money. I really feel bad. And then when he drops me off at home, ahh I hate to do this, I'm so embarrassed but can I borrow fifty dollars I'm running a little short this week. Thanks friend.

the last time i heard from my stbx she started by texting with:

"don't give me grief over it... I've been very busy and haven't been able to call. Its not my fault" (best as i can recall)

funny thing is, i never said a thing and in could care less if she calls to talk to my daughter or not.

its not my relationship she's screwing up, that died a long time ago... its her relationship with my daughter that she's letting die.

LOL... i don't care... its funny though.

Oh, the last time she saw my daughter was 26 days ago... and before that it was about 2 weeks...

Why are you trying to make him jealous? He isn't worth the time and effort. Be your beautiful self and ignore him and his presence. You are better than the games. Its ok to think that you want to put a gun to his head, but doing it is not right.

I'm just having a little fun... just part of the recent turn of events. I just feel great that he is now making all efforts to let me know he wants me back, unfortunately I've been out with a few guys and have caught bigger fish. I'm enjoying dating way too much probably.