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Bearing the unbearable

RDD1987
RDD1987

Its been 2 months since she stopped seeing me. Never heard back from her since then, I wonder how could she just get up and leave. People say its not the end of the world but it sure does feel like the end. 

mirandac
mirandac
People do leave not much you can do about
It except grieve it and keep trying to heal.

Keep posting on here and join a breakup group
If you can. We all Understand the feelings of rejection,
pain and hurt, time takes time and no contact helps
A lot with the healing process, HUGS
piecelost
piecelost
I've not been with my ex for 8 or 9 months now and I'm still waiting for it not to hurt anymore. Mines a little different I had to end it, so I can't seem to move on yet, not sure if I want to. HUGS to you!
Atpeacemary
Atpeacemary
Hugs, my friend. Yes, it hurts, a lot too. There is nothing you can do. They have already move on and meanwhile we are stuck in limbo. Let them go, they have shown their true colours. You are young, there is a whole world to explore. Go and grab life by the tail and swing it. Please be gentle with yourself. Even if they do give you a reason, are you going to believe them.
sunlitdays
sunlitdays
I feel the same, but my breakup is much more recent.
I think that you should focus on doing things you love, and keeping yourself busy.
It's very hard not to fall into the pit of destructive and negative thoughts that are involved in this situation, but I wish for you (and myself, tbh) to be able to do the brave thing and move on. \
They always say these things are better in time....let us hope it's true.
Wish you the best
frckls22
frckls22
I understand how you feel. All you can do is talk to people who care and this is a great place to that. although most people up here are hurting themselves, I have not received this much support from anywhere else. Its good to talk to people who are willing to listen who have been through things themselves. its inspiring. try to keep your head up, and know you are loved.
bridgie101
bridgie101
i think it hurts most if your life grinds to a halt. Jump on back in the pool and grab another fish. :)
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