For me, it used to be the evening, when I would come home to an empty place after work. I missed having someone to talk to about my day. I missed cooking dinner with someone. I missed cuddling on the couch and relaxing.

My earlier journals were written mostly at night. It helped get me through.

For me it is when I get off my full-time day job, only to travel to my 2nd job. I wish I could be home in the evenings to see my kids. It's fucking depressing.

It used to be evenings for me.

I thought I read where 3pm was related to the supernatural.

3 pm is when Oprah's on.

Hmmm. She comes on at 4pm here. I meant 3am.

my worst was always around 7 - 9 at night..usually the time he would have been coming home

also that first rip your heart out when i woke up each morning

Mornings......I wake up every morning, several times actually, usually at 4am. I have that horrible feeling in my stomach that I have to get through another day.

I also would wake up at 2, 3, 4am. As soon as I woke up my mind would start racing and I couldnt go back to sleep.

Also around lunch time is hard. He always called me on his lunch break. I still make sure I have my phone just in case he calls.....he never does.

And IT SUCKS not having him in the bed with me at night. I always snuggled him and rubbed his hair and back to make me sleepy.

Its making me sad to talk about it...

Definitely at night, especially when trying to sleep. I think about how I used to share the bed with someone and snuggle in his arms until I fell asleep. Now, I lay there alone and it kinds hurts.

It's hard for me to go to bed at night. Even if I'm tired, its hard to get to sleep. I especially avoid going to bed when my daughter is with my husband - don't have her breathing to listen to over the monitor.

I try never to get up in the 3 o'clock hour. Had really bad experience in college with evil things appearing to me at that time of night.

The worst? Waking up in the middle of the night because you had a nightmare about stbx and ow.

Pain, pure pain

The hardest time for me is right after work, around 6pm to 9 pm, when I'd usually see the stbx or call if I was on the road. Sundays are really bad usually, as that was 'our' time together and now it's 'their' time together...

Shoot...I've had those nightmares my self recently...sick effin thought.

Oh man...the nightmares...the nightmares...I literally say this out loud nearly every night just before I fall asleep - "God, all I'm asking is a few hours of dreamless sleep so I can have the strength I need to get through another day..."

Wow - that looks even lamer written out than saying it..:(

For me it's the morning, I'm especially sad now that my kids are in school.