Hi everyone I was once apart of this group a long time ago and now I am back. I was engaged to someone who I thought was a wonderful man. We decided to have a child together and about half - way through my pregnancy he started being distant. After our son was born in June we didn't see much of each other because he was working and I was 200 miles away at my mom's. Even after I returned home (he didn't live with me) he still didn't visit but maybe once every 2 weeks or so. The last time I heard from him is when my son and I went to go see him 2 weeks before Thanksgiving.

Then January 8th his mom sent me a nasty message on facebook telling me to "Grow up and leave him alone". She said that he had been cheating on me for a year with a woman who supposedly has his oldest son and is pregnant with his next child. He had told me, when we found out that I was pregnant that our son would be his first child (as well as my first). She then went on to say that they are engaged and told me to "Just go away".

I have already hired a lawyer to help me get his rights terminated, and I am doing my best to pull myself together after all this, but on nights like tonight it seems to be worse than normal. Thanks for listening I guess I just needed to get all this off my chest.