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Are men and women different?

Rman
Rman
Are men and woman really all that different? I mean the truth is that we are all human beings (maybe not TD). We all have emotions and feelings. We have the ability to hurt and be hurt. We have the ability to love and the desire to be loved. So, are men and women really all that different? I would say no. If you think otherwise, I would love to hear your comments...
totallychaotic247
totallychaotic247
I think that you may have something there Rbaby. It is all in how we put ourselves forth. Most women are more emotionally open than men. Most men are physically stronger than women. It is how we were created. That doesn't mean that I don't think I could kick Dan's butt at arm wrestling:) Humans are humans, the way we are raised, the way we handle things makes the differences. I have three older brothers, no sisters my Dad wasn't around at all and my Mom was always at work or "getting gas" for several hours at a time. My brothers practically raised me so I act alot more "masculine" than other women. Tomboy is probably an understatement for me. Can I still be all soft and sweet, sure can:) I don't know how I feel about this, physical differences definitly, the way we think definitly, but how much of that is nature and how much nurture?
afanador
afanador
yes, they are different. women wear pink thong panties and men don't
totallychaotic247
totallychaotic247
Some men do Afandor 69?
deleted_user
deleted_user
They are the same AND different.
afanador
afanador
prego, talking from experience?
totallychaotic247
totallychaotic247
I have never personally seen a man wearing a pink thong.....but I did go to this place called the cave for my 21st and my bachelorette party. They were wearing thongs and smiles:)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Rman...you ask an intelligent question. Lets compare:

Me: woman reasonably easy to get along with, cleans, cooks, looks after the kids, funny, gregarious, has a temper but trys very hard to control it and will apologize for mistakes made.

My x: man - EGOTISTICAL, SELF CENTRED, NARCISSTIC, LIEING, IMATURE FUCK UP, THAT DOESNT HAVE THE BALLS TO LIVE UP TO HIS RESPONSIBILITIES AND RUNS WHEN THE HE CANT "HANDLE" HIS LIFE. And now gets to live with the drunks downtown....she waves goodbye an gives him the finger. FU x.

I would have to say that...ya...men and women are different.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I was gonna say men are more visual...