Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
It’s been some time since I’ve posted but it’s still been difficult up till now. I’ve been talking to ladies and trying to go on dates but has anyone else just felt disappointment after disappointment after trying to put yourself back out there? I’ve felt not betraayed but just hurt several times just back and fourth after putting myself out there, and it’s kinda making me lose hope. A little context, most dates I’ve had are from tinder, but I digress, I just feel like just as I feel better about myself it goes right back down the tube.
Just a suggestion, but why don't you focus on yourself for a bit ..before getting back on dating scene. I am guessing a little time away might help you, so when you are finally ready to get back you will be refreshed and what happened in past won't have an effect on you.
Most of all don't lose hope, as that's the one thing that keeps us going ..Stay strong; you will find the one you are looking for :)
Tc.
Until your outer protection layer is a little stronger and your able to go at dating with a good strong sense of self, enough to laugh it off and just have fun (which is the goal) you may need to back out a little.. it can be more destructive then you may be prepared for..
Give yourself some time and space.. no need to rush, focus on you for a minute, do things that you KNOW will make you smile.. instead of relying on strangers to help you find that smile again (ds aside obviously : ) )
I think you just need to date yourself right now!! Take a break from the opposite sex and concentrate on yourself! Figure out what you really want in a partner. Dating is supposed to make you feel good about yourself, but if you aren't getting that feeling while going on dates it simply means you are not ready!