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HeaveToo 10/18/2008

Well, it is another Saturday night all by me onesies. I had a date during the day today with a great girl (third date). I can't complain because the date went incredible but I am not sure where it is heading. I think that she likes me but things are moving ultra slow (I guess it isn't a bad thing). I respect this girl a lot and she seems to be a great person so far. We shall see what comes of it.

So I am sitting here fustrated. None of my friends around here are able to do anything so I am sitting at home all by myself trying to figure out what to do. I have a feeling that I will be on here for the evening. Oh well, such is life and at least I have good friends on here.

With this cold weather it would have been great to be able to cuddle up on the couch and watch a movie with the girl that I like but we aren't to that point yet. I hope that it gets to that point because I do enjoy things like that.

Anyone have any plans or are you stuck on here like me, wishing there was more to life than cyberspace?

Lucille6 10/18/2008

Hey heave, i am here too. It seems like the weekends were something to look forward to when married and single before married. an now, longest most depressing, boring time ever is the weekends! Yikes!!! If you want to talk just let me know..

deleted_user 10/18/2008

a cyberlife is better than no life! lol! ; )

deleted_user 10/18/2008

agreed heave. alone on a saturday night. hate my life. what else is new?

deleted_user 10/18/2008

I have to go pick my daughter up from Magic Mountain later tonight. Just playing taxi driver today...lol.

deleted_user 10/18/2008

I'm home alone as well! Had an ok time out last night in between the tears! Damn vodka.

Today is my John Cusack film festival. I'm on movie number three... still have 4 more to go! It's lonely but I'm trying to to dwell too much.

hurtinandhealin2560 10/18/2008

Just got home; spent the day with sisters-in-law (I still have a good relationship with them). We went to a fall festival.

Now I'm visiting with my friends on DS.

Don't worry about taking the dating slowly, Heave. Good things are worth waiting for.

But I know how you feel; cuddling while watching a movie is one the many things I miss. I guess you'll just have to settle for cyber-cuddling-lol.

deleted_user 10/18/2008

I'm hoping to go out later with some friends. If not there is always SNL to watch. I suggest everyone tune in tonight. I heard Palin is going to be on! Should be fun!!!

HeaveToo 10/18/2008

I should have bought some rum yesterday! All I have is beer and I want RUM!

deleted_user 10/18/2008

sorry heave. all i have here is expresso flavored vodka! (it is good though!)

deleted_user 10/18/2008

Red I was going to check it out as well. Should be funny. Probably watch the hockey game, leafs of course, and the Bo-sox play before that.

deleted_user 10/18/2008

I'm all by my onesies too, but I'm also feeling down--so, I'm telling you, if you had a happy day, you're a step ahead. Got no plans, but thanks for reminding me about SNL, Red! Should be a good one!

deleted_user 10/18/2008

Well, Just got back from the gym. Going to the batting cages. Eating dinne rlater on. Most likely will meet up with someone tonight (Not sure who yet). But its barely 5:30 pm. So time will tell. I have a Baseball gamew in the morning at 9 am. SO I cant be out long.

HeaveToo 10/18/2008

Yeah....but I am still alone tonight. Damn the fact that the girl that I have had three dates with is 1.5 hours away from me.

Hrm...if you have had three dates with the same girl and been talking with her for over a month are you "Dating?"

deleted_user 10/18/2008

I'm alone too. Its become a Sat. night tradition for me.

deleted_user 10/18/2008

ANytime you go out somewhere with the opposite sex, youre on a date. All depends on what everyones motives are though. Does she know you want to be exclusive"? Are you afraid to tell her? Give it 3 more dates.

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