Is your attorney drafting a letter with a list of the items you want given to you? Then I believe he will have to or show cause why he has not done so. Then item by item he has to either return or list and be prepared to show evidence why this item or that is not being returned because..... No fun, and the best thing you can do is enforce yourself into not following any of his social networking and physically and mentally remove yourself from that irritation. It's only serving his need to dig at you and thus control and jerk you around emotionally. Put up your own mental safe boundary and retreat behind it as your stronghold for peace and strength not chaos and a weak puppet on a string. You're better than this and deserve much better treatment. So love yourself for now and know it will get better.

Awaiting attorneys call back but yes I have put together a list of every item and messages from him admitting he had these things and would return by the end of the week, however that never happened and then I also have messages of him saying he threw it all away, new girlfriend said she saw him throw away my clothes and such. I won't let it go as others say it's just "things" be glad you're away from him and let go. NO, these are MY things, things I bought and paid for and NO ONE has a right to throw them away. It's time I stand up for myself. I gave him the best of me, loyalty love devotion honor and for WHAT?????

Aw so sorry. I know i basically started all over when i moved. I hope ot gets better.

Well. Just took the title of crazy ex girlfriend and sent his boss a message..... someone take my phone away. Ugh. He's a leuitenant at a Max security prison and hates his major however the major sent me a friend request on fb when I met him so I messaged him and told him my side of the story... smh is remorse now. Crap. Oh well what do I have to lose right?

Do whatever you can to stay away from social media. It's going to be hard to do, but do everything you can. It is ok to feel angry, there's nothing you could do about going through your emotions, but don't let it control you.

I deactivated my fb I need a huge disconnect from the world. A quiet week in the mountains alone to get back to me and away from the reality

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I wish I could say that was true, I wish . She is pretty and seems nice. However I don't respect her for jumping in with him when she knows we are still in the break up phase,. I just feel so worthless and unwanted and replaced. This man planned a proposal for next month, meets her and dumps me. Just like that... how is that possible????

Relationship are very difficult at times. Recently went through a divorce myself and there were times were I felt the most empty feeling one can feel. I know now why God hates divorce because it only brings hurt and distruction. My best advice is to pray and have faith. God has big plans for you! He has plans for you to prosper and to have a bright future! Be patient and trust in Jesus! He loves you unconditionally!

Amen!