I know what you all are going to say, but I just have to put this to the masses. Long story long, I found some messages between my bf and another woman (an old hs gf) on Facebook. I have been having gut feelings for a long time and just decided to check two weeks ago. Well I let it go and checked again to read the full disclosure on Sunday. It went back to Dec 2012, sporadic but talked about personal stuff with me, like knowing where I live, that I lived with my exH while trying to sell house, when I had my kids, his work schedule and when she could come down to our boat. According to the messages it had to be in the winter months because nobody would be there to see and "she" (meaning me) knows people there, etc, yada yada. Talked about sexual stuff (he tried to get it on with her before he met me but couldn't rise to the occasion and he told me about it), about trying again since the one time didn't work well, maybe we can go for more than one round since "I'm not that old ya know".

Well the shit hit the fan on Monday as I have been holding it in, yet trying to dig around. I posted a meme and a status and he questioned whether I thought he was cheating and I said "as a matter of fact...yes". He wanted to know what I was talking about, so I told him I saw the FB messages, now he's claiming someone "hacked" his account and had his personal information thru texts and sent those messages. In the meantime I also sent her a message demanding answers. She gets back to me she has brain tumors, is homebound, and a slew of medical problems and that her husband stays home with her bc she can't be alone. I call bullshit, and made up story. He's never said shit and then once they probably get their stories straight he tells me that she has these things and "should have told me about them" and that no way could she get on a boat as she's 200 lbs and keeps falling down.

My question and it's a dumb one, believe me, is could it be possible for someone to hack the account and know all that stuff and write that? I have had my accounts hacked but in no way on that level of personal information. Just ads and stuff sent to others. If anyone has experienced this or if it COULD be possible, please let me know. Thank you. Personally I believe NONE of it, but I just had to be sure and ask. I need to disengage.