Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My wife left me 6 weeks ago for another man - I was initially very low but over the past 3 weeks have become very positive. I feel like I want to do some things for me for a change as in join a gym and buy myself some new clothes. In the past I have never done these things as all my money I spent on my wife and children gladly.
Problem is because, for once in my life, I want to spend some money and have some time for myself, I feel like I am being selfish.
Problem is because, for once in my life, I want to spend some money and have some time for myself, I feel like I am being selfish.
now it IS >all about you<
when we split, my stbx found me an apartment with someone SHE works with. the first thing she told me the first day I was with her "even though I'm her friend, it's now ALL about YOU"
The ONLY way you'll ever been good for/to/with anyone else is if you are good for/to/with YOURSELF.
Being the Best You isn't selfish. Being a Burden to someone else IS, and that's what you'd be otherwise
hope that helps :)
:-)