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Hi everyone!
remember I posted about my friend a couple weeks ago, that we've been friends for over a year and he's all of a sudden started flirting with me since his ex fiance flew out to Alaska?
"alone" (part1): http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Breakups_Divorce/forum/10377805-alone
I thought i'd give you all an update on the situation....
so he lives with her as roommates and she was gone for a month, right?
well she came back like on the 1st or the 2nd of Sep. and some of you (including me) were wondering if his persistent flirting would stop when she would return.
well, I was on the phone with him for like 5 mins on the 2nd of Sep and he suddenly got off. (I'm assuming this is when she came back). he won't return my calls since then. won't even answer the phone.
then I get a text message last night saying that he misses all the laughter with me and he's "going through some changing times. some old. some new. but very frustrating. and silent."
i just assumed that when she showed up that means there's a TON of drama going on between them.
see, this is the very reason WHY (and i told him this over and over:) I didn't want to date him. he shouldn't drag ANYBODY into that kind of mess. that's just not fair to anyone.
this is probably why he hasn't called me? or is he mad at me for "rejecting" him?
remember I posted about my friend a couple weeks ago, that we've been friends for over a year and he's all of a sudden started flirting with me since his ex fiance flew out to Alaska?
"alone" (part1): http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Breakups_Divorce/forum/10377805-alone
I thought i'd give you all an update on the situation....
so he lives with her as roommates and she was gone for a month, right?
well she came back like on the 1st or the 2nd of Sep. and some of you (including me) were wondering if his persistent flirting would stop when she would return.
well, I was on the phone with him for like 5 mins on the 2nd of Sep and he suddenly got off. (I'm assuming this is when she came back). he won't return my calls since then. won't even answer the phone.
then I get a text message last night saying that he misses all the laughter with me and he's "going through some changing times. some old. some new. but very frustrating. and silent."
i just assumed that when she showed up that means there's a TON of drama going on between them.
see, this is the very reason WHY (and i told him this over and over:) I didn't want to date him. he shouldn't drag ANYBODY into that kind of mess. that's just not fair to anyone.
this is probably why he hasn't called me? or is he mad at me for "rejecting" him?
Is he mad at you? No. Does he think u r mad at him. Probably.
You deserve more.
am i mad at him? naw.... I've been hangin with my other friends (the ones he got jealous of..... why'd he get jealous of them? cuz he prolly has issues.) in my book if you're jealous of friends, it's a red flag. and i mentioned this to him the last time we hung out. hmm, funny, he hasn't hung out with me since. whatever. if you wanna throw away a years worth of friendship cuz you wanna be stupid, aint my problem.
men..... can't control their emotions.... *sigh*
Move on and don't sweat it. you did the right thing
i'm NOT his back up plan. that won't happen.
it's bad enough i'm still exhausted from the drama i went through from MY ex. so, just thinking about THIS situation is making me tired.
I just wanna hang out with friends.
friendship is all i want right now, nothing more nothing less. anything out side of those borders, he (or anyone else) can piss off.