I'm so sorry you have to go through that, knowing that your ex is happy with someone new only makes your pain that much worse. My ex had a new girlfriend within a week of us breaking up, and they moved in together basically immediately. It makes me feel like the last 3 1/2 years of our life together meant nothing. It's hard to deal with, I know how you feel. I'm so sorry.

My ex did that too. Within a month of our divorce, he moved in with a new GF.

sorry :(

Therivers are they still together and how long has it been? He just hot out of a 17 year marriage and said his wife was bipolor now moving in with this tramp that is definially bipolar..

My ex husband cheated on me with 3 different women during the last 8 months of our marriage. The third one being the one he is living with now. But I don't believe she knows we were still legally married when they shacked up. We were separated when he hooked up with the 3rd one. They are still together and it's been almost a year now, I think?
I kinda dont care. He can be her problem. He's a piece of s**t. Also, I was married to him for 14 years.
Honestly, I think you should leave this guy alone. For one, he is still legally married. For two, what he is doing with you, and with "tramp from the bar" is not healthy. He's not looking to settle with anyone. He's just swinging from tree to tree.
And, they will say anything about their ex wife. My ex husband used to tell so many lies about me to try to get people to side with him. Just luckily enough, people knew better.
I have obsessed about certain men in my life just the same as you are doing now. It's not good. It eats you alive. Right now, I am trying to cut contact with this one guy I had been seeing. He straight up told me to go out and date other people, that he would not commit to me, yet he still calls me everyday. Why does he keep me hanging on like that? I dont know. But, the only way to free yourself from it is to just cut the strings. It's incredibly hard in the beginning but time does heal.

OMG how heartbreaking! I can only imagine how you feel. I think this is a situation where No Contact would benefit you. If he is telling you one thing (he's not ready for a relationship) and doing another (moving in w/ someone) you are only going to continue to be heartbroken and confused. Take some time to youself. Being involved with him in any way, watching him move forward with someone else, if just going to damage you, not heal you.
I am so sorry youhave to deal with this and feel this way :(

I know i prolly shouldnt care what happens to him but am just so hurt why couldnt i be the one? We had everything in common and the only thing they have in common is the bar. He knows how hard it was to find a place when he and his wife split and now he is just walking out on hisl lease and apparntly so is she. How can they do this to their kids. "they cant stand to be apart" wtf

My ex got engaged after only dating 7 weeks. That is not love it is lust and infatuation. People who rush into these kind of things like marrying and moving in together so quickly just shows how emotionally weak they are that they MUST have someone in their lives to keep them happy. Well if your not happy with yourself then you cant be happy with anyone else. My ex has such self esteem issues that he was never happy the whole time we were married no matter how awesome of a wife i was. so im pretty sure that someone new who is going to be demanding of him isnt goign to make him happy either. You really need to let this guy go, he obviously is not emotionally healthy enough to be in ANY relationship.

Smile are they still together and how long as it been?

Because he lied to you. That's how.

I'm sorry. I hope you can remove yourself from whatever and whoever it is providing all this information about them that you seem to know.

Sounds like a recipe for disaster, if you ask me.

And I have to agree wholeheartedly with smilesomeday on this one..

anyways... Im sorry for your pain :( I know its hard to let go of not only them as a person, but also to let go of all the false promises and empty words.

Wishing you the best