Dude, you have made the first step to a better life. I support you. And hug you. (((rman)))

Thanks, Anne!

Anne, don't you hate the baybay?

But you don't always respond to constant validation.

Are we to validate without acknowledgement? How do I know if my validation is working?

I'm just a little confused....

You keep coming back. That's how you know it's working.


*polishes off validation badge*

Thanks for giving me attention people. And I just noticed that still bitter is alittleconfused...someone please stroke her ego...or his...

THERE'S A BADGE?!

I don't have such an object.

If I attended such things, I'd have a chip tho....

Wait - stroke what?

@ NEKAJ reply #3: Me NOT hating the baybay today is a perfect example of the kind of growth that can be had from the exchange of ideas here!

So I don't mind enabling his narcissism, by stroking his ego and giving him validation, for a few minutes now and then :) He taught me much.

I don't know Rman, I thought that the best thing to do for the addicted was to take away their addictions.

You the man!!! ((((((((((Rman))))))))))

Let us take over your life. We're smarter than you, nicer than you, more capable than you- give into the power.

See how I set you up with that question, Anne?

Nice spike!

You gotta love the power of a "group," where everyone is equal and shares very similar experiences. The beauty of this place has always been that everyone pretty much understands how the pain from this crap feels. This is different than being on the "outside," where most people you talk to could never comprehend what we have, or are going through with the breakup and/or divorce. So, tell me how you like me and I'll tell you what you need to know...If you can't do this right now, then maybe you can share your lunch with me???

You know how I feel about you Rman. (((R)))
Can I share you lunch, I didn't make anything today.

wait - anne's stroking rman?