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I wrote a journal entry today on acceptance that is way too long to post here, but if you want to read it feel free.
I hope my jouranal can help some of you get past the anger and hurt and move into the acceptance stage as I have. I hope that you can get some strength and courage from this jouranal and see hope and light at the end of your tunnel.
Six months ago I couldn't have written this journal, but today I can and I did.
It's been a long road, but I've come so far and I'm ready to move forward.
I hope my journal helps you to start moving forward too.
Let me know if it helps you at all.
I hope my jouranal can help some of you get past the anger and hurt and move into the acceptance stage as I have. I hope that you can get some strength and courage from this jouranal and see hope and light at the end of your tunnel.
Six months ago I couldn't have written this journal, but today I can and I did.
It's been a long road, but I've come so far and I'm ready to move forward.
I hope my journal helps you to start moving forward too.
Let me know if it helps you at all.
deleted_user
Good for you Chrissy. I'm also starting myself to accept what is happening. My divorce will be final within a few months. Acceptance is very hard, but only with acceptance will I find true happiness.
deleted_user
I think I avoided anger and I should face it one day...recently, I accepted it...he even asked me when my anger comes, to let him know so he can run for cover!
Chrissy614
ZXJ - I too missed the anger stage. I never did get angry about any of this. I think it's because I truly saw my part in the breakup and how could I just be angry at him for leaving. There were many times I thought to leave myself but because I loved him more than he loved me, I would have never done that. Still, after all is said and done, I never saw this coming. It's been a long road but I'm going to make it. I hope you are doing ok today and I hope tomorrow makes you stronger. Hugs to you.
dlmfree
That's great you're there--congrats!!! I, too, have gotten to that stage and would add "forgiveness." It doesn't mean I condone my stbx's behavior but I decided to let go of my anger and focus on me and my kids than to waste anymore time expending energy (negative energy) on him. Ick--done. I feel soooooo much better and agree that it's allowed me to move forward in a positive direction. There is light at the end of the tunnel. All the best to you in your journey forward!
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