well yesterday sucked, today was worse. Had to leave work and went to the hospital. Finally the stress has caught up. I've done everything your supposed to do. Yet here I am. I'm off work now for at least a month and now on meds. My daughters birthday is this weekend. She is having the party on Saturday and having friends sleep over. So I asked if she would want to come over Thursday or Friday. She says she's not allowed she has to clean the house for her party plus help her mom babysit. My son was over tonight. He tells me about all the guys she has been seeing. They are at my house now!  He caught her banging a guy last weekend and they just laughs at him. It was a guy she brought home from a seedy bar. Then he tells me the real reason my daughter can't come over Friday. My stbx is leaving the house and needs my daughter to look after the daycare. While she goes to get another tattoo and her belly button pierced. Then off to the bar to met her new man. He gave me the names of the men. There are 6 of them! I think she's an escort. My son doesn't need to know this stuff. She's hanging a school trip that my daughter is going on over her head. She threatens to take it away if she doesn't do what she asked. She's meeting guys online and going to meet them. My son knows this. She comes home from the bars and my son gives her shit for driving. She say relax it was only a couple of drinks. My son smarter then her. She was once really against drinking and driving. I feel powerless to do anything. I have the no contact order, lawyers don't to shit.  Do I call children's aid? They closed the case even after I told them I was worried about my daughter, I told them it was only a matter of time before the men came over to my house and now in my old bed. I know the one fella is a known drug dealer. My son says he thinks she's doing something. Might explain where all the money is going. Everything is bouncing in the checkings account but she can drink and get tattoos. My world feels like it is collapsing I can't do anything. Thinking positive is getting me nowhere, calling crisis hotlines do nothing, calling my lawyer does nothing, calling the cops does nothing. I'm a man so I'm the criminal got to fight this BS charge, sure my lawyer says it will be dropped because no assaults took place but when?  The longer it takes the worst she gets my kids need help. I can't say f it and just step in and take them, I'll be arrested! I'm the one struggling to keep the bills paid making sure there's food for my kids. Trying to look after myself get stronger because I know the battle is coming. In the mean time why am I the only one worried about their safety? Creeps hanging around my house. My son says the dog is pulling his hair out. Even he's is stressed. 14?weeks I have voiced my concerns to all sorts of people and nothing gets done. Do they wait till something happens like a drug overdose, or my son punches out one of her guys which he has threatened already, or something bad happens to my daughter? I'm falling apart and don't know what to do I've done it all. She is crumbling but she's taking the kids down with her. There is no answer.