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OMG- I just need to vent for a second I am so pissed right now! My former husband's crazy girlfriend just called me at 11:30pm on my cellphone and hung up when I answered (the number looked vaguely familiar and I had a gut feeling it was her so I called my ex and asked what her number was and he said that the number was hers and that he had given my number to her). She was in the process of breaking up with him AGAIN and "demanded" my number from him and was calling me to find out why he and I broke up and I was suppose to say something like"He left because he was not happy in the marriage, he didn't leave because of you"..... My ex was begging me to talk to her- to answer her questions...and I just said "I am not talking to this woman- you have seriously crossed the line to involve me in this mess and she better NEVER call me again". She called again while I was on the phone with him but I did not take the call. He is now angry with me for not helping him and yelled "If you EVER loved me, you would do this for me!"... and I said "If you were not out of your mind right now- you would realize what a foolish move it is to ask your ex wife to defend you to the woman you cheated on her with!". What was he thinking? He said what a nice person I am and that she would "believe me".... OMG!!! Does this nightmare never end? I said "I am hanging up now and I don't want to hear from EITHER of you!"...... Well... it has been 20 minutes and they haven't called back.. maybe it's safe!
Wow- he has entered an entirely new sphere of crazy.... anyone else deal with an ex who is out of control???? UGH! I am so frustrated! Now this woman (who is completely unstable) has my personal cell phone number... why can't I be done with him?
Wow- he has entered an entirely new sphere of crazy.... anyone else deal with an ex who is out of control???? UGH! I am so frustrated! Now this woman (who is completely unstable) has my personal cell phone number... why can't I be done with him?
can i be the Kamp Kommandant?
Herr GeneralOberst Klerk, has a great sound to it...
i can make sure that all the F'tards spend their days polishing turds (which, thanks to Mythbusters, i know is possible) and their nights eating their balls of polished turds.
Although, if I had integrity, I probably wouldn't market the hurting.
Luckily, no worries there!
two words i'd never expect to see in the same sentence, unless there's the modifyer 'not' involved somewhere.
JK buddy!
funny episode.
kd...you may need to change your number. You DO NOT need her calling you, period....she can (For lack of better words.) "SUCK IT!"
Sorry you have to deal with such a damn fool.
Wow.
(((((kd))))))
He's getting what he deserves, the cheater gets dumped.
Thanks buddy, you just made my brain explode.
The mess was smaller and more manageable than I thought.
I think I would have fostered the idiocy with telling her to also contact ALL of his old girlfriends, so she could get a more rounded and solid view. Then changed my number.
But for him to want you to smooth things over with his new girl, and to go as far as to say "if you loved me you would..." ... srsly? really? inconsiderate and disrespectful to even think to put you in this situation. Sounds almost like high school... idiot.
My cell can block a number so it never rings and just shows as a missed call. See if your phone can do this! If not try getting a new phone that can. Block both their numbers and only call him if it regards the kids (assuming there are kids).
I wouldn't talk to her his behalf either. You can block land line number as well.
(((hug)))