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I haven't had any happy dreams since my world blew apart 2 1/2 yrs ago, but I did last night.....parts of it anyway. Maybe someone can help me figure it out!
In the dream I was involved with a very attractive man....he looked like that guy on Lost with the dark curly longish hair. I was thrilled out of my mind with him. We did everything together and enjoyed every moment together. All of a sudden, we are in the middle of a shoot out and he says, "I'm an under over agent and I just used you to get to the people we were after!". "Oh, and I can't see you again because I'm married!"
Next we are laying in bed, just talking and laughing and holding each other. It was such a wonderful feeling to me. He just kept saying he could never call me because he was married and if I wanted to see him I would have to show up at robberies to see if he was there. I said why don't you call me. He said, wow you want me to call you? I will!
So, my first feelings when I woke up was happiness....that I had been with someone so special. But, what is up with the married angle? I would never be with a married man. I was the one cheated on! It destroyed me and I would never do that to someone else.
Perhaps another angle is that I am a cougar....sorry....I prefer younger attractive men....I guess I was thrilled when I thought he was into me. I am trying to work through this issue as I wonder if I will ever meet a very attractive man that will treasure me at my age....
Positive thoughts would be appreciated.....I'mnot a shallow person...physical attraction is very important to me.
In the dream I was involved with a very attractive man....he looked like that guy on Lost with the dark curly longish hair. I was thrilled out of my mind with him. We did everything together and enjoyed every moment together. All of a sudden, we are in the middle of a shoot out and he says, "I'm an under over agent and I just used you to get to the people we were after!". "Oh, and I can't see you again because I'm married!"
Next we are laying in bed, just talking and laughing and holding each other. It was such a wonderful feeling to me. He just kept saying he could never call me because he was married and if I wanted to see him I would have to show up at robberies to see if he was there. I said why don't you call me. He said, wow you want me to call you? I will!
So, my first feelings when I woke up was happiness....that I had been with someone so special. But, what is up with the married angle? I would never be with a married man. I was the one cheated on! It destroyed me and I would never do that to someone else.
Perhaps another angle is that I am a cougar....sorry....I prefer younger attractive men....I guess I was thrilled when I thought he was into me. I am trying to work through this issue as I wonder if I will ever meet a very attractive man that will treasure me at my age....
Positive thoughts would be appreciated.....I'mnot a shallow person...physical attraction is very important to me.
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Huh. Not sure how to help with this. I do know that dreams should usually not be taken literally. As for your desires to be treasured, my advice is to start with treasuring yourself. trite and simplistic as that may sound.
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