I've met a woman whom I've fallen for, it was instant, the very first time I met her.
The problem is we are different to one another, she has been married twice, and to the same types of people. I am a different type and as a result she isn't into me. She says she is looking for someone different (like me) but how does she successfully do that if she only knows one type of person?
She is a classic like father like partner type. Her father labelled her as stupid in her childhood, and both of her husbands have treated her as if, how does she break the mould and get into someone like me?
I know we can’t put a time on it, but how long does it take to start feeling slightly better? Like you are starting to get over that certain person? I hear each day it should hurt less but it doesn’t, each week you should think about them less, but I don’t. Friends say you’ll wake up one day and just have a different mindset that you (me) deserve better and you are over it. Any advice ......
I haven't been cheated on nor have I cheated on my wife, but understand the issues that lead to an affair and would be happy to be a shoulder or an impartial ear to listen. There is never a good reason for hurting someone you love, but often it's a 2-sided situation that creates the need for an affair - sometimes even just right-place-right-time - so it's good to have an objective view to see...