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A good laugh

STex
STex

So some friends asked me to join them at the club for dinner and drinks tonight. I was more than happy to meet up with friends, but it gets better!


They informed me that they had overheard the other betrayed spouse saying she was holding on for a bit because she was going to take everything as soon as the kids start college. She has just been playing along with him the whole time!


This just solidifies the fact that my wife and he are still seeing each other. They deserve each other. 


Had a great day and it kept getting better!

cleigh
cleigh
Don't you love getting little tidbits of information that just makes you smile just a little bit (or laugh!). I am still uncovering or learning things about my ex that no longer surprise me. I am at the point where I just laugh. Glad you had a great day!!!
ripped_my_heartout
ripped_my_heartout
Glad your feeling better. It's good to get out with friends. Cheers
STex
STex
It was good to get out, we all need to force ourselves out of the routine. It is just nice to feel a little less pain. Next time I'm melting down please remind me of this post! (And the fact that he is going to be broke!)
Zenlife7
Zenlife7
That's hilarious!!! What a douchebag hahaha he's gonna get screwed big time.
It's like when I found out the girl that my ex left me for is in heavy debt because of her fashionista addiction and can't even pay rent because of it. That's what he left me for?! Lol
STex
STex
Those that take the crooked road always end up in the ditch before the affair fog clears!
officiallytryingtomoveon
officiallytryingtomoveon
So glad you got out tonight! I actually did the same with some old coworkers. It was great to catch up and smile and talk about things other than what I'm always thinking with the break up. Good for you!! Good for us!
FamilyGuy
FamilyGuy
I'm actually in danger because my non educated, (not even a ged) no money having wife has been trying to draw me into a physical altercation so she take take my boys, who she sees as paychecks. She alreaey took total cotrol of my disabled sons social security account. Her aspiration in life is to be a trophy wife and apparently I don't make enough. She's Colombian and I'm a jersey guy, (a real one not one of those obnoxious douche bags you see on TV. Most NJ people are just regular people). I was raised right, I don't fight, not guys but especially not women. She's trying to live a Spanish soap opera and the drama is killing me slowly. I worry for my safety. She cheats on me and I Atlas this household. It's 5 am, I quasi sleep with one eye open. It's taking a physical toll. In the 10 days after she finally confessed to at least one other guy (couldn't keep her own story straight) I've lost 10% of my body weight and I'm a skinny guy to begin with, I didn't have the weight to lose. People tell me I look sick and I am. Love sick to my core. I live in a crazy world.
Newbeginnings4me
Newbeginnings4me
That is awesome... I am so happy for you...
The person my ex cheated on me with approached me in the store the other day. I told her to enjoy my left overs he was all hers.