Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Hi. I'm Christina and I live in Las Vegas. I'm going through a divorce with my husband of 12 years. We have 3 kids, 9, 10, and 12. This last year has been awful. He is unable to maintain a job, so I was the breadwinner of the family.
While I was at work last summer, he was abusing the kids. It got to the point CPS was called. We did counseling and jumped through the many hoops CPS put in front of us. During all of that, our oldest was admitted to the hospital for suicidal thoughts. After she got home, the counseling was 6 days a week.
We took a short trip on Halloween, and he told me he wanted to go to dinner with some friends from high school. We had a nice dinner and came home. Fast forward to December, and while I was at work, he was surfing porn and dating websites.
In February, on the day CPS closed the case, his "friend from high school" blasted on Facebook about their affair because she was tired of waiting for him to leave me.
He moved to be closer to his friend so he now lives 400 miles away. Yesterday, I went to the lawyer and signed divorce papers. Knowing everything he did to me and the kids, why does it still feel bad?
While I was at work last summer, he was abusing the kids. It got to the point CPS was called. We did counseling and jumped through the many hoops CPS put in front of us. During all of that, our oldest was admitted to the hospital for suicidal thoughts. After she got home, the counseling was 6 days a week.
We took a short trip on Halloween, and he told me he wanted to go to dinner with some friends from high school. We had a nice dinner and came home. Fast forward to December, and while I was at work, he was surfing porn and dating websites.
In February, on the day CPS closed the case, his "friend from high school" blasted on Facebook about their affair because she was tired of waiting for him to leave me.
He moved to be closer to his friend so he now lives 400 miles away. Yesterday, I went to the lawyer and signed divorce papers. Knowing everything he did to me and the kids, why does it still feel bad?
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I so exhausted from pain in my back that started Sunday but was mild and almost gone till I took bath that night and think I twisted or did something to take it to excruciating...I am away for work in a different state so traveled Monday and worked today then called my boss to fyi her about fact I am falling apart and walking like elderly person! I did telemed and they called in prednisone and...
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Can't wait to burn my pumpkin spice candle! National Coffee Day is coming up on the 29th so I hope to score up on a free coffee.
It is a tricky thing to love someone who is obviously a terrible person. I think we do it because we are needy and that person represented someone who could potentially meet our needs.
Have you been to counseling to figure out why this guy remains in your heart and how he got there to begin with?
Hope you and your children can work through this and begin healing.
You and your children are in my prayer. Peace and healing to you, Chris.
Im sorry.
Its going to take some time to wrap your head around what has happened and what is your next step. it appears you may just be going through the motions right now.
Welcome to the group
I blocked him and his friend on Facebook, but with the kids, no contact isn't an option.
I hope with time that we will feel better. Its hard being with someone so long having kids and dealing with the breakup. Take care.
& it sucks. IT SUCKS.
But apparently we have to go through it, so gather support around you & let yourself go through whatever emotional ride you have to take.
Remember to look for good things every single day too. You deserve & need that in order to hold on through the difficult parts.
Everyone tells me it gets better with time, & by doing the personal work through counseling, you are helping yourself along