Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
When we are faced with great pain in our lives, we are given the opportunity to grow from it. Wisdom comes with a heavy price and many tears are bound to happen along the way; Just remember that mist is often in the field when dawn is just beyond the horizon. You may feel like you are lost, but it will clear and you will see that you are not alone, you were never alone, and slowly but surely, you will make your way home.
T.B. LaBerge
I believe the slowly part...it's been almost a year and I still feel like I lost my best friend. He's still the first person I want to share big news with and I still think about him almost constantly no matter what I do. Learning to live with this is the hardest thing I've ever had to do.
T.B. LaBerge
I believe the slowly part...it's been almost a year and I still feel like I lost my best friend. He's still the first person I want to share big news with and I still think about him almost constantly no matter what I do. Learning to live with this is the hardest thing I've ever had to do.
I know your pain......hugs!
its a horrrible journey we're all on.. I'm also getting closer to my 1 yr mark.. I found my ex cheating Aug. 2014.. and it was a long downward spiral from there.. but looking back at where I WAS.. and where I AM now.. I'm not the same person, and things aren't perfect.. but I'm also not crying everyday.. I'm not struggling just to get out of bed in the AM like I was in the beginning.. remember to count your blessings.. and know its NOT going to go away overnight.. and honestly if it did - it didn't mean as much as you thought it did.. the hurt you feel is also the validation of how you felt.. if that makes sence :)
I feel like I lost my bestfriend too.. I DID lose my best friend.. and now I make myself limit any and all conversations with him, because he still WANTS to be friends.. even though he's living with his OW.. I refuse! Friends dont treat each other that way.. friends down walk over each other and then turn around expecting things to be just fine.. yes, at one point he probably was your best friend.. but you deserve more out of your friends.. and you DEFINITELY deserve more out of your spouse.. your not alone in your thought processes.. this year is one I'd never wish on anyone.. and yet so many ppl are traveling this same road.. ((hugs)) give yourself a break.. we all deserve that
Approaching two years since separation.....it is still a horrible struggle
But some days are good
Breaking No Contact always messes me up for several days after
I just want my divorce as I feel this will be a big step in letting go and moving on