Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
"Lessons usually involve understanding something that wasn't understood before.
But sometimes the lesson is only the acceptance that it doesn't make sense right now, and to be able to move on without having figured out every last reason or detail.
Some lessons are two-fold, and it may be many years before the second part unfolds, revealing answers to the first."
~ Doe Zantamata
It's hard to quiet your mind and get to this point but acceptance will give you some peace. It doesn't take away the pain or make you stop missing someone but for me, it lessened the anxiety I've had since my breakup.
Wishing you all a peaceful day. Be kind to yourself. :)
But sometimes the lesson is only the acceptance that it doesn't make sense right now, and to be able to move on without having figured out every last reason or detail.
Some lessons are two-fold, and it may be many years before the second part unfolds, revealing answers to the first."
~ Doe Zantamata
It's hard to quiet your mind and get to this point but acceptance will give you some peace. It doesn't take away the pain or make you stop missing someone but for me, it lessened the anxiety I've had since my breakup.
Wishing you all a peaceful day. Be kind to yourself. :)
A lesson I'm trying to apply to many things today.
Thanks for sharing
((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))
This was very hard for me, but when I really accepted that I will never know what is going on in his head, and that I am the one causing all my misery is when I really started feeling better.
Serenity prayer helps too
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.