Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Hi all,
I am new here. I know I younger and it may seem silly, but I dated my high school sweetheart for 7 years. I actually just got back from spending spring break with him. I am about to graduate college ( we are long distance but i planned on moving back when i graduate in May). My plan has always been to move back home and we wouldn't have to do distance anymore. After what i thought was an amazing week filled with kisses and laughs he calls me during a stressful day because I am struggling to find a job and it has taken a toll on me. He just randomly called me and said that important milestones are coming up and he doesn't think we should continue because if I come home and we are together we would end up married. He said that he didnt see a future with me, we weren;t compatible and that i don't mentally stimulate him. As I am bawling because I am so confused because we had been great, and this was unexpected. He also threw in that he cheated on me 3 years ago, and didn't tell me about it. So he didn't tell me about it until he was done with me so it didn't matter how i felt about it, or what i wouldn've done. Now i am so heartbroken because this time last week i was literally in his bed while he was making me pancakes and giving me kisses saying how he wished i didnt have to go and how he was ready to go to my graduation. He even said maybe we could plan a trip sooner than that. Now it is just over the rug pulled out form under me when i needed him most. The most we have ever gone without talking is 3 days since i was 15 and i dont know how to adjust to life without him in it. Plus I had a plan to move home all this time and now i dont know what to do. I dont want to run into him and i feel sick to my stomach i miss him and i hate myself for missing him. I hate that i wish he wanted me back when i have always been one of those girls that once you cheat on me i am done. I hate that he never even gave me a chance to form my own opinions or give my input. I hate that now i have a ton to get done before graduation and i cant concentrate on anything and i cant sleep. I am scared i wont ever bounce back and i wont ever feel better.