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just a quick back ground.... the ex left me back in March after almost 4 yrs together. the break up was so full of drama it was exhausting and it went on for weeks. the process of separating all the stuff in the house added to the exhaustion during those weeks. and then there was some drama a couple months afterwards that totally drained me.
since then, i've wanted to be completely alone.... i don't want any guy in my life. no boy friend, no fuck buddy, no dates, no nothing. i just want my own space right now.
but now there's this friend of mine.... we've been friends for a lil over a year now I think. anyway, he lives with his ex fiance (as room mates), she has been in Alaska all month visiting family. all of a sudden he's been flirting with me like crazy! so I asked him what the deal was and he said that he hasn't felt this happy with someone (meaning ME) in years! and he really likes me. i explained how i want to be alone. he said he understands, but he's still flirting with me. wtf.
we get along really good and have lots of things we both enjoy. BUT i really don't wanna date right now.
advice? thoughts? anything?
since then, i've wanted to be completely alone.... i don't want any guy in my life. no boy friend, no fuck buddy, no dates, no nothing. i just want my own space right now.
but now there's this friend of mine.... we've been friends for a lil over a year now I think. anyway, he lives with his ex fiance (as room mates), she has been in Alaska all month visiting family. all of a sudden he's been flirting with me like crazy! so I asked him what the deal was and he said that he hasn't felt this happy with someone (meaning ME) in years! and he really likes me. i explained how i want to be alone. he said he understands, but he's still flirting with me. wtf.
we get along really good and have lots of things we both enjoy. BUT i really don't wanna date right now.
advice? thoughts? anything?
good luck
i asked him when she comes back. he said the 1st. but he gave me this look.
we;ll have to wait and see if his flirting has anything to do with her being gone or if she comes back.