I am always ashamed of the situation i found myself today . I got divorced 4 years ago outta in Florida before i later moved down to UK to start a new job and new life with my son . I caught my ex having sex with my friend in our living room twice . The first time i caught them , my ex told me that my friend forced him and she might kill him if he refused . I had to believe him because i love him and thought my friend could actually betray me . 3 weeks later on my way from work , i heard both of them screaming of the pleasure they were deriving from the sex . They were both half naked and i almost got out of my skin . The problem started that day because i dont know if my ex was saying the truth or not . After i moved down to UK, my boss asked me out and i told him (NO). He's married and i cant do it . I play alot with him and i think that gave him courage to say that but he touched my try to touch my left boob and i slapped him which really cost me my job and i dont care . 3 years after moving down to UK , my ex contact my lawyer that he needs me back and he's sorry about what he did. Though , my friend already had a child for him now and he wants me back . My ex made me feel all men are the same and i dont wanna have anything to do with men anymore. But i have been to lots of seminars and counselling and its probably helping me . Please everyone i need your advice , I need a serious man who will love me and my son and accept me for who i am and i dont wanna go through another second divorce again . I need your advice on this . Thank you