Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Well guys, it has been 4 weeks since my life was altered. I am getting long and as always there are good days and there are bad days.
This morning was a set back in a way. I thought about my wife dating other people and it was pretty depressing. I still love her but I need to block those feelings out. I wanted to call her to try to talk her into seeing me for her birthday (it is the 17th of this month) but I didn't. I need to Hold Fast. I thought of something that she did to me that was mean and I got through it but I am still having one of those days.
QUite frankly, I am worried that I will miss her for the rest of my life. I really did love her. I can't believe that she did this to me.
The whole dating world is scaring the crap out of me. I can't seem to meet any descent women. I am trying to move on but it is a hard path to travel.
Anyone out there who knows what I mean?
This morning was a set back in a way. I thought about my wife dating other people and it was pretty depressing. I still love her but I need to block those feelings out. I wanted to call her to try to talk her into seeing me for her birthday (it is the 17th of this month) but I didn't. I need to Hold Fast. I thought of something that she did to me that was mean and I got through it but I am still having one of those days.
QUite frankly, I am worried that I will miss her for the rest of my life. I really did love her. I can't believe that she did this to me.
The whole dating world is scaring the crap out of me. I can't seem to meet any descent women. I am trying to move on but it is a hard path to travel.
Anyone out there who knows what I mean?
SOme people grieve differently. Breath in, Breath out, move on. I am moving on!
I am very picky and I am not just going to end up with the first person I date. It is like a job interview to me and if they can't fit the requirments of the job then they can't be hired.
I know who I am and what I want out of life. I know what type of personality will match mine. Sadly, at one point in time, my wife's personality did match mine. It doesn't match me any longer and I was sacrificing myself way too much for the sake of the marriage.
Some people say it is too soon to move on. I am not going to say that I am definately ready for another long term serious commitment, but I won't chase it away if I was lucky enough to find that one specail person out there.
The difference between this and rebound is that rebound is when you are looking for someone to fill the space. I am not looking for someone to make me complete, I am just looking for someone to share my life with. I am already complete as I am and I am happy with who I am.