Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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AndreaBEE 04/06/2013

Leaving a man after 6 years. Have split up this is the 3rd time in 6 years. Moving back home to AZ from Upstate NY where he moved me. Can't wait to be with friends and family. Feel sad and financially in bad shape. Any advise would be helpful. I know in my heart I can't live with this man. How do I break the cycle and get him out of my system?

deleted_user 05/01/2013

Why should he care if you have money? It's your money, not his. Stop the contact with him. Cut him off.

sidecar 05/01/2013

Six years and 3 breakups should tell you this relationship is not going to work. Him wanting to come see you and wanting you to pay is manipulative and I would also say controlling.

You have to make a clean break and the less you converse with him, the better off you will be.

You are young and have your whole life ahead of you. You don't need this drama and this hassle from a dead beat like him.

AndreaBEE 05/01/2013

Thanks all for your support. I am trying to get it. I have great support here and he is a dead beat.

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