Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Background. Husband dumped me for a woman he met through an online dating site...at least 6 months before I even knew he was unhappy. Moved her here this last November and married her a week later. They have been married about 6 months. I cant get over him while I live in this small town so I have resigned and am moving away from here. He kept asking where was I going and I finally told him Houston (which is one possibility) just to stop him asking. I asked why he wanted to know and he said because he wanted to make sure I was ok. WTF? Right?
My plan is and has been to not let him know where I am going. Changing the number on my cell and making it unlisted. Same with landline. Already have him blocked on Facebook. For the 1st time in 26 years the string will finally be cut. He wont know where I am.
Yesterday I was at home with a headache: unfreaking believable. Got text from him asking if I was excited and if I was still going to Houston. Talked a little. When he found out I was at home he wanted to come over. Told him I was fixing to take a bath. wanted to come "wash my back."...
Doing my best to avoid him and not see him before i leave town in a month. Not going to tell him when I leave either.Just going to slip out of town. My friends will NOT give him any info if he asks and very few people will even have that info.
I'm 59 years old and starting my life all over again... He will not be a part of this one.
My plan is and has been to not let him know where I am going. Changing the number on my cell and making it unlisted. Same with landline. Already have him blocked on Facebook. For the 1st time in 26 years the string will finally be cut. He wont know where I am.
Yesterday I was at home with a headache: unfreaking believable. Got text from him asking if I was excited and if I was still going to Houston. Talked a little. When he found out I was at home he wanted to come over. Told him I was fixing to take a bath. wanted to come "wash my back."...
Doing my best to avoid him and not see him before i leave town in a month. Not going to tell him when I leave either.Just going to slip out of town. My friends will NOT give him any info if he asks and very few people will even have that info.
I'm 59 years old and starting my life all over again... He will not be a part of this one.
I dont deny that I have failed now and then to stay away from him. That's one reason I am leaving town and not letting him know where I go. For the first time in 26 years I wont be his safety net. It has to be done.