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jaclyn1973
jaclyn1973
He's started showing up in my dreams. He never used to but now it's almost every night.
athletic4ws
athletic4ws
I really don't know, but I have the same thing going on Jaclyn . My BU is fresh kinda, but the dreams can be overwhelming.
Try to read or watch something on tv that takes concentration. Focus hard on it until you fall asleep.
Waking up is even is hard as well!,
OLDBIKER
OLDBIKER
This things happen. My dreams do not always stem from my previous marriage but, my biker past invades my sleep and I get to yelling and talking so loud that I wake my wife up across the hall and she has to come wake me up.

These dreams usually happen when I am stressed about something or when I am extremely tired.

These dreams will wane in time and show up less often. Hang in there. There are better things ahead.
jaclyn1973
jaclyn1973
On Fridays I get off work at noon. So thi last Fridays I was sitting on the sofa in my jammies. It was about 2:30 P.M.

I had taken my hearing aids out because with just me here, I dont need them when I am at home. All f a sudden the front door

opened..and my God,my first thought was to wonder why my husband was home from work so early. And HE never lived here with me. Somethings I just have no control over.

BTW-it was the maintenance guy changing the air filter. He knocked but I didnt hear him.
happymama2j
happymama2j
at first, i didn't dream about stbxh. then, i was having devastating dreams about him practically every night. now, it is hit and miss. my grandma offered me a dream catcher on sunday (she doesnt know about the dreams, she just got it in the mail for some reason?) so i hung it in my bedroom. can't hurt right? anyway, sorry to hear it, it sucks to dream about the ex/stbx.
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