Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
So I have been talkin to this guy for about 5 months and a couple of days ago he told me he didnt think we should talk to each other anymore......he was VERY mad at me about something but wouldnt tell me straight up what it was. I do want him back though but I dont want to look like im desperate and beg him to come back. I think and his friends think he still wants to be with me. But I dont want to make him think he can just come back whenever he pleases. He has some things at my house, I told him to come get them and he hasnt. My first question is...is that a sign that he might come back? ( maybe he is just mad and not talking to me to prove a point?) i would think if he was really done he would of came and got it already.
Second questions is..... should I put his stuff outside his door without calling or texting him? ( to make it seem like I dont miss him and im not gonna wait around for him) or should I just ask him when he is going to come get it? I just want him to think he doesnt have me wrapped around his finger....what do you guys think?
Second questions is..... should I put his stuff outside his door without calling or texting him? ( to make it seem like I dont miss him and im not gonna wait around for him) or should I just ask him when he is going to come get it? I just want him to think he doesnt have me wrapped around his finger....what do you guys think?
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Stay Strong
Throw his stuff out and get on with your life!
If he cannot tell you directly what the problem is, then this is someone you don't need.
I'm sorry you're hurting.
Don't read into anything.
Don't assume anything.
If he can't be direct and honest with you, good riddance.
How much stuff does he have at your place? Just let him know he has X number of days to make arrangements to get his things otherwise you will be donating them to charity.
You have to kiss a lot of frogs before finding a good man.
I wouldn't read anything into this, I wouldn't play any games. Let him know where/when he can get his stuff, wish him well and move on.
You do NOT want someone who can't or worse, won't communicate with you.
I'm sorry this didn't work out better for you, but keep trying. You are young and have a lot of time to figure out what you want, and more importantly, don't want.
Don't sell yourself short, and don't settle for less than you deserve.
HUGS HUGS HUGS!!!