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2 and a half years no longer( Temporarily)

bonjovi1986
bonjovi1986

I just recently was broken up with by my girlfriend of almost 2 and a half years. I caused ALL the problems so I cant blame her for doing what she did. I feel like I lost not my girlfriend, but my BEST FRIEND. I feel like my life is not going to ever be the same. I feel like My life has no meaning now cause of how much she means to me both inside and out. She is my rock, My soul, my heart, my blood, my spirit. She agreed to meet with me in 3 weeks to talk but I cant stop messaging her or contacting her even though she has told me repeatedely she needs her space. Any suggestions? Maybe Anyone willing to talk to me about it? I feel bad reaching out to random strangers for help but anything will help me at this point. I have never felt worse about what I have done and never felt worse about the way everything had happened. So if anyone wants to message me individually, it would be nothing but appreciated and reciprocated. 

Strong4me2017
Strong4me2017
So sorry you are going through this. It's very hard not to want to contact that's all I want to do is talk to my ex. But plan your words carefully and think before you talk to her about whether or not it will help or hurt. Don't blame yourself for everything it's not just your fault it takes two people to make a relationship work. Keep looking to the next day that's what keep telling myself hugs
bonjovi1986
bonjovi1986
I promise you it is 1 hundred percent my fault. I am going to be real here. I did it. I caused it. She deserved to do it.
Atpeacemary
Atpeacemary
Good, now leave her be, let her regroup and at least she has agreed to see you in three weeks. Use that time to talk to a therapist, elder or even a church leader. You really need to have a good grasp on why you do what you do. You do not want to do a repeat performance. Because the next time could be the final time too. Not only with her, but with whomever comes into your life. Be gentle with yourself too.
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