I personally get to know the person first. It does not matter if they are bi when you are first getting to know them. Those questions can be dealt with once you see if you click on other levels.

In my opinion, whatever your sexual or gender identity happens to be is irrelevant to how I feel about you initially. I am a trans woman that has come to realize many things about my perceptions in my 52 years. There was a time when I would have probably shied away from a person that openly expressed being bi sexual or anything other than vanilla. But I have discovered that variety is most definitely a brilliant part of the human experience. If you are religious, as am I, then you have to accept that God does not make mistakes. You are who you are because you were intended to be that way. There is nothing wrong with who you are. Your only meant to live your life to the very best of your abilities. Loving in any form is a wonderful thing to be celebrated and cherished not shunned. Anyone that would judge you for who you are is not work your time or energy. Live and love, enjoy every moment of every day. That is the true gift of life. Love yourself and be open to those who would truly love you for who you are. If you look for it, you will find that love is there in many places for you to find and embrace for as long as you desire. Have a wonderful day. Love and faith.

Gabrielle

Hi I'm Bisexual to. But to answer your question No. I try not to jump to conclusions or form opinions about people before I get to know them.

Very well said Gabrielle. You sound like a beautiful person. I too am a religious person and you summed up my beliefs on this topic.

I think you should be unapolegetically yourself and don't worry about what other people think. After all I'm sure you want people to like you for you! If they don't they aren't worth your time anyway.

I am a bisexual man and would not really care if my wife were bisexual. I am more interested in the person. If my wife wanted to have a threesome, I do not believe I would mind but I am also sure that is partly because I am bisexual. However, I do not believe I could have a man join us for me to play with. I tend to like my privacy.

I would want to know the person first. But to be honest I would think of you differently. But in an exciting way. I think most men do enjoy the thought of being with 2 women at the same time. But then that will take knowing both of them. I don’t feel that being bisexual is a cause to look down on a person. For any reason as it doesn’t make for good friends. What ever a persons personal preferences are. Should not be held against them. Because you won’t or don’t want to allow them. To hold your preferences against you.

I'm a bisexual woman too, and I'm dating a man whom I'm in love with and whom is also bisexual. We've talked about trying to let a third party in on our relationship just to try it out sometime, if for no other reason than to spice up our sex life. So I can tell you that.. at least for me? I would not at all be disgusted by the prospect of letting someone like you into something preestablished that I had going on with another partner.

Not quite sure what other people would think about that idea, but hey. Chances are there are tons and tons of other couples like me and my boyfriend out there that would be more than willing to experiment with you.

Sexuality would not be the first consideration for me on meeting a woman. I would be thinking of personality, kindness, whether we have compatible interests and sense of humour for example. If we were on the same wavelength in respects such as these I could respect and accept whatever her sexuality I hope she would think of me in a similar way.

I agree with Barry. I would be first interested in the person and when I find the person attractive and lovely it wouldn’t bother me what sexual taste she has.

Well, being bisexual myself, it kind of sparks an interest for me if I find out they like girls to. Sometimes. If I meant you as a friend, i still think of you as a friend. If you introduced yourself as someone who likes females it kind of opens different doors and oppurtunities that one wouldnt have if they meant a straight person. But, i mean you got to get to know a person for it to turn into anything whether it be friendship or a relationship. Its usually not about preference to me when deciding who my friends are or arent. Its about their personalities and thats what counts. Usually people dont introduce themselves like "hi, im sally, my favorite color is red, im bisexual, and I love dogs." Usually there is already some sort of relationship formed before they share that information.