First I think you need to find some peace. Do some research on how homosexual christians view the bible and what it says, see if you are confortable with a new point of view. Second, talk to your spouce, if he treats it like "YAY two women!!" Dont do that twice!! But it is worth it to speak to him and kind of "get his permission" to explore this side of yourself, agree NOT to do anything with anyone with out his consent ... blah blah blah, if you arent living openly and honestly and true to yourself andd your commitments, you may live to regret that!!

Darling you need to make peace with who you are in your own orientation before you can be set to discuss with your husband. If you truely believe that is what you are than be proud of it. I was raised by a christian mother who taught that god made us all the way we r if we are bi that is who we are ment to be never be ashamed of what u r

If you need someone to talk to, please feel free to message me. I have known I am bi since I was about 13. It can be so confusing especially when this conflicts with your faith.

As I said I am happy to be a sounding board for you and maybe try and help you find some peace with who you are, whatever that is.

lou xx

Definitely agree with goddess. Check into different interpretations for the bible. Just because certain groups of people viewed it one way doesn't make it the right interpretation. The bible is can be interpreted so many ways.
I'm married too, I'm happy and I love my husband. I like to be honest in my relationship and I think it's important to respect my husbands feelings. Right now he is not cool with polyamory and I respect that, it's really relationship dependent and every couple has different ways. Hugs. If you need to talk send me a pm.

I say think it through carefully and do NOT do anyuthing without speaking to your husband about it. don't do anything with someone else that you wouldn't want your husband doing with someone else.

I was just discussing with someone the other day that just because I might identify as bisexual people think that means I sleep around or am really sexually adventurous... I think some people who start to consider the possibilitythat they might be bi think that too, but I'm not sure why...

your beliefs about relationships and what is appropriate as far as monogamy is concerned has nothing to do with if you are bisexual or not.

I am in a similar situation as yourself, I would be happy to talk to with you !

Although I have been overwhelmingly attracted to men, there were two women in my life I fell emotionally in love with. I was 18 the first time and 46 the second time. At 18, I was a total virgin to either men or women. I never had sexual contact with the girl I had a crush on. At 46 I did have some sexual contact (not complete), and would have liked a relationship with her. But she felt horribly guilty and refused to pursue it.

I agree that Christianity makes us feel guilty about homosexuality or bisexuality--but then they don't have a healthy opinion of even "normal" heterosexual relations! Words like "fornication", "abomination" etc. are SO not conducive to mental health and happiness!

I am Catholic, and our church would put straight or gay "fornication" as a venial sin not a mortal sin.....and if your husband did not mind how could it be adultery?

anyway, it's odd to me how readily some Christians will reject others, not help someone who needs it, say cruel words, react harshly with judgement and not really think twice about it, but somehow gay sex is a big, giant sin? that doesn't make sense to me. Don't be hard on yourself!

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when you find yourself is bisexual. it doesn't matter, If you need someone to talk to,you can find her on ~bisexualmale.net~
bisexual dating community specifically for bisexual male,female and couples.
life need try ,right