Bisexuality Support Group

Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.

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meme88
meme88
Ok! I have been with girls befor with np. But now I have been in a realtionship with my bf for 2 yrs now. he really wants to have a 3some but I am kinda scared. frist being with a guy and a girl at the same time.
and second finding a girl that I would feel confable haveing sex with and shareing my bf with.
I know he see me checking out other chicks all the time but I think he really starting to think I am not sure if I like chicks.. witch isnt the case its the whole scared shitless and the second one too. I know if I told him he wouldnt really understand..so I don't no what would you all do if u were in my place
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have struggled with feeling comfortable too, and sadly still have not had the 3-some b/c I still have fears. It's hard to explain, but I think my biggest fear is loosing my husband. If your bf is really into you, he will wait, and he will do whatever YOU feel comfortable doing.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Well,

I am not sure what to tell you here. I can see it easier with two seperate relationships but to have a three way is a different manner.

I mean there are so many things to consider. why does he want this? i think you need to really talk about things. My husband had three concerns when I wanted to try this.

1) How do you find someone who will be equally involved?

2) protection, and using protection correctly

3) How will this change how you see me and I see you

i thought this Girl E. would be great but he was afraid that E would end up wanting more from him and try and pull us apart.

Woman can get possessive as can guys. He was ore ok with me having an outside female relationship.

How will you relate to the female afterwards is it just a one nighter or is it a true threeway love situation.

I wish you the best of luck. relationships with 2 are hard but add a third I just can't see it working out!!
meme88
meme88
ah! I am so confused!! all these things you both have said are my fears.
I want to talk to him about it but at the same time I just want to leave it alone..grr