Some people may say it's wrong. Others will say it's not. I personally don't think it's wrong, because you've got to do for yourself to make you happy. I'm kind of going through the same issue. I've had boyfriends, but I've always kind of wanted to be with a girl. Now it's at a point where I don't feel like supressing myself anymore, because it isn't making me happy. And I'm just sick of not being happy. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be with a girl, but if you are seriously looking into hooking up with one, you might want to give your bf a little heads up, so you both don't end up hurting in the end.

it definitely isnt wrong... but... yes... but... i dont agree with cheating... i mean it certainly isnt wrong to want a bit of female attention... but if you are not single... maybe it's not such a good idea to act upon those thoughts right now... unless he is aware and ok with it...

Have you spoken with your boyfriend about how you feel? I didn't tell the last guy I was with and it really ate at me. I couldn't take it. My current boyfriend does know and he is ok with me being with women. We do have some rules about what can and can't happen and since I am open with him, there is a great deal of trust.